The Becoming Her Blog

  Becoming Her: Sis, Don’t Let Anybody Rush God’s Timeline for Your Life 💜🙏🏾 Sis, I need you to hear this today: Don’t ever let anyone else tell you the timeline God has for you. Not your family. Not your friends. Not social media. Not the people who keep asking, “So when are you going to…?” And definitely not that little voice in your own head telling you that you should be further along by now. Because one thing I’m learning in this Becoming Her season is that God’s timing for my life does not have to look like anybody else’s. And neither does yours. 💜 Sis, You Are Not Behind Sometimes we look around and everybody seems to be moving. She’s getting married. She’s buying the house. She’s graduating. She’s starting the business. She’s getting promoted. She’s having the baby. She’s walking into the opportunity you’ve been praying about for YEARS. And if we’re not careful, we’ll start looking at somebody else’s chapter and questioning our own. “God, what about ...

  Becoming Her: Sis, Mature Beyond Looking for Signs and Start Believing God 💜🙏🏾 Sis, this one may step on a few toes… including mine. 😩 How many times have we prayed and then immediately started looking for a sign? “God, if this is You, let this happen.” “Lord, if I’m supposed to do it, send me another confirmation.” Then God confirms it, and we’re like… “Okay Lord, just ONE more sign.” 😂 At some point, sis, our faith has to mature beyond constantly needing God to prove Himself. Sometimes the next level of our relationship with God is simply saying: “God, I believe You.” 💜 What If There Isn’t Another Sign? Sometimes we’re waiting for God to send another confirmation when He’s already told us what to do. We’re waiting for the perfect feeling. The perfect opportunity. The perfect person to say the right thing. But faith doesn’t always come with visible proof. Hebrews 11:1 reminds us: “Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not...