The Becoming Her Blog

  💜 Becoming Her: Sis, God Can Still Use You Sis, can we talk about something that I think a lot of us struggle with? Feeling like we have to have it all together before God can use us. We look at our mistakes, our past, our attitudes, our struggles, the things we’re still working on, and sometimes we think: “God couldn’t possibly use me.” But sis… As imperfect as we are, God STILL loves us, and He can and WILL use us for His glory. 🙌🏾💜 God Never Asked You to Be Perfect I think sometimes we put pressure on ourselves that God never put on us. We think we need to have the perfect prayer life. Know every scripture. Never get frustrated. Never make another mistake. Never struggle with our faith. Always respond the right way. And whew… if that’s the requirement, I would’ve been disqualified a LONG time ago. 😂 But that’s the beautiful thing about grace. God already knows us. The real us. He knows the parts we post on Facebook AND the parts we don’t tell anybody a...

  💜 Becoming Her: Sis, We Need Women Who Will Pray for Us Sis, you were never meant to do this walk alone. I know we live in a world that celebrates being independent. We hear things like, “I don’t need anybody,” or “I can do everything by myself.” And yes, there are seasons when God will separate you and teach you how to depend on Him. But sis… we still need each other. We need women who will pray for us when we can’t even find the words to pray for ourselves. Sometimes You Won’t Have the Words Have you ever been so tired, overwhelmed, hurt, or frustrated that you knew you needed to pray—but you didn’t even know what to say? I have. Sometimes all you have is: “God, help me.” Sometimes all you have are tears. And that’s why having the right women around you matters. I want sisters who can recognize when something is off and say: “Sis, I got you. Let me pray for you.” Not gossip about it. Not run and tell everybody what I’m going through. Not judge me because I’m ...